"It's a kinda become life of the book" stated the author, 21-year-old Freda Lee Tinglöf the newspaper Expressen. She believes that adultery is not as taboo as before.
"Book of cheating" was released in Sweden last year. It is written by an anonymous woman who tells her side leaps, and how she behaves so as not to be discovered by her husband. She loves him a lot, but he is, according to the book, not as interested in sex as she was.
Also Berwaldhallen, Swedish Radio Symphony Orchestra home scene has embraced the trend, they ran an advertising campaign recently about adultery because this is not an uncommon theme in the opera world.
Trend in Sweden
The Nordic CIO for Victoria Milan, Dominika Pezcynski, said she stands behind the term "Otrohestrenden" after she wrote an article about the phenomenon.
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- We live in countries where the climate is so very morally and politically correct. I think the incredible safety trend is a small rebellion against this. People want to be a bit naughty, quite simply, says CIO Site Victoria Milan launched a half years ago.
This is the first professional dating site in the Nordic countries that are not aimed at singles, but instead married or cohabiting women and men.
Victoria Milan encourage married and cohabiting to make life more exciting by having an affair.
Adultery can be ok
- I think it's very important not to hurt people. But I think it is just as important, in fact, a man's duty to make himself happy. Is it possible to combine these two, it's ok.
- What will it take for adultery to be successful do you think?
- I believe that infidelity can end up in two scenarios. Whether the relationship strong as a result of infidelity or so it takes over. In the case where the relationship has ended, then it is surely intended. Infidelity was the springboard that was needed for the awesome party would dare to take the step.
But in both cases, whether you continue the relationship or not, it is very important to deal with his affair so subtle that one's partner does not explain anything.
- The only thing achieved by admitting infidelity towards his partner, he / she becomes upset. Many argue that it is honest to tell, but I think it is entirely selfish.
Man tells just to ease his conscience, and even to have the better, not for his partner's sake, says the CIO.
Hot site for adultery
According to the website Pezcynski Victoria Milan 220,000 members in Sweden, and she said the number of members in Norway is about. 115 000.
- This is about the same, when we consider that their population in Norway is less than ours. The site is very popular in Denmark and Finland, and it goes against the theory that people in Catholic countries are more amazing than in Protestant, says Perzcynski which also has a history of the Swedish 90s band "Army of Lovers."
Mother of young children without adultery plans
Personally Victoria Milans Swedish boss no intention of being unfaithful. She has a baby of six months and has been with her boyfriend for three years.
- Our relationship is pretty new, and the child has fully up. I have absolutely no desire to be unfaithful to my husband. However, I have been unfaithful in previous relationships, as a way to end the relationship on. I can not say I'm worried that my husband will be unfaithful to me, but I can not waste time worrying over things that I have not yet happened and I'm not jealous filed either. Should he be unfaithful, I will not he tell it to me. As long as I do not know about it, so it has not happened, so to speak.